I have found facebook fairly useful. However, there is one thing that is causing me some confusion. I have friends that I have had for a long time. People I love very very dearly, that are now on Facebook. What I notice is that many of these people post purposefully inflammatory stuff, via status updates, links, videos, polls, etc… I am wondering what people are asking for when they post these things. Do they want those who agree to say so? Do they want dissenters to bring it up? Perhaps this is overly generous, but perhaps they want to invite public discussion? Given that when I see people who dissagree post, it seems to always end poorly, I can’t see discussion really being wanted.
When I post, I desire people to think. I try to not say “believe this”, or “X person is stone cold stupid”. I would like for people to get their hands on dirty, subversive little things called facts, wrestle with them in public forums, and see how things end up for them. My problem is also thus, however: When i see someone make a comment, or insinuate something I consider erroneous or misleading, I feel the need to correct it, since these people posting as my friends makes me feel like I give passive assent to their comments by my own inaction.
I just get tired of picking on the same friends for posting the same agendized, non-helpful pot-stirring stuff. And actually, I just don’t like it when Christians do it. My other friends I actually don’t care. But Christ followers should know better.
And before you ask, Scott, I am not talking about you. I think you are funny in your passion. Plus, I agree a lot. But not always. But you are still funny then.
Damn. I couldn’t help myself. I just posted. Sits back and waits for facebooky flames…
flames reported…confirmed. Fanning….
can you become an un-fan of something on facebook? I just learned that some newscaster called Glen Beck would make that list for me.
For me, I tend to post things because I think diverse ideas should be thrown out in the public forum. FB is a great “melting pot” of people…and it can either consist of trivial posts, or thought provoking/challenging posts, or a mixture. Sure, some of my posts are more provokative than others, and I get my share of flames, but it’s okay. At least flames are interesting…and I’ve never been interested in someone’s status saying “Watching TV” or “Going to bed” or…you get the point.
…just posted a FB status regarding Mr. Beck…
I recently posted some on a thread that got out of hand. It started off innocently and degenerated in a way the poster never intended or expected. But an atheist and a Christian started getting beligerant with each other in the worst ways. I contacted the atheist later because I wanted to pursue a more civil conversation with him on the Christ topic if possible.
I was shocked and surprised when he apologized for being a jerk on the post. He said he does that purposefully to Christians to see if he can get them to lose their temper. If he succeeds he feels like he’s proven his point that Christianity doesn’t change the Christian.